Emotional Divorce between Spouses: Psychological and Social Implications and a Family Counseling Perspective
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https://doi.org/10.52839/0111-000-091-008Keywords:
Emotional divorce, Psychological effects, Social effectsAbstract
This research aims to determine the level of psychological and social effects of emotional divorce among married couples in Irbid and to identify the statistical differences in terms of gender, age, and years of marriage. The research adopted a descriptive-analytical approach and was applied to a convenience sample of 924 participants residing in Irbid. The results indicated that the level of social effects was high, with a mean score of 3.83, and there was also a high level of psychological effects, with a mean score of 3.83. Moreover, the results showed statistically significant differences in psychological effects in favor of females, while no differences were found between the sexes in social effects. There are statistically significant differences in terms of age and years of marriage, in favor of older age groups (45 years and older) and those married for longer periods (3-5 years). In light of these findings, the research recommends developing specialized preventative and therapeutic guidance programs aimed at repairing emotional bonds and raising community awareness of the invisible effects of silent separation.
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